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The Peaceful Planet Emotional Healing Portal
Website of Elizabeth Slingsby A.H.M.A.P.H Accredited Healer & Certified Reiki Master/Teacher (Usui Shiki Ryoho) I am a member of the NHS Directory of Complementary & Alternative Practitioners |
New Life-New Beginnings New Healing copyright Elizabeth Slingsby All Rights Reserved |
Location: Garstang Road Fulwood Preston PR2 3EB Tel: 01772 461933 Mob: 07980 691873 E-mail: info@thepeacefulplanet.co.uk
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Emotional Healing (for new beginnings)
Healing can take place at various times in your life and if you are fortunate and are surrounded by the right kind of support and guidance this can occur by a natural process. Such healing is often needed following events that take place, or circumstances that arise, which alter the direction you are moving in. In this type of situation or experience, whatever the initial cause, and whether that cause was recent or many years ago, if the right kind of support and guidance is not available, a good Healer can often help you find those unidentified sources of stress and anxiety that are preventing you from living a more full and happy life. You may find yourself at a cross roads or turning point, such as the end of a relationship which was no longer viable, when the decision to end the relationship may not have been made by you. When you reach the point where you can really let go and move forward or perhaps consider entering a new relationship (even if you did not make the decision to leave the old one), it can feel like starting life anew. This can feel as if a cleansing process has taken place, washing away all the old stale energies from your system that were no longer working for you.
It can also happen when you reach a certain age, begin a new job or career, move from one town (or even one country) to another, or even just move home within the same area. There are numerous situations throughout your life in which you may experience this feeling.
At times such as these you may find yourself facing new beginnings in life, as though you are at the start of your journey rather than part way through it, almost with a feeling of being reborn. It is a time when you can become acutely aware of how it feels to be filled with positive energy, and it can be exhilarating and fill you with a real sense of being healed of all that has previously been wrong with your life, and how you have felt about it. You may feel innocent and trusting, seeing only good in those with whom you are entering into relationships, and eager to move forward and make progress.
These situations are invariably linked to relationship issues, whether they are personal or professional, old or new, and they are also times when you can be at your most vulnerable. This is because you may have re-discovered your optimism and enthusiasm, your thirst for life and your enjoyment of it, and may feel almost intoxicated with the feelings it stirs within you.
However, you may not always be able to make the transition from one phase of your life to the next without working from a base of fear that you still carry in your system from negative past experiences, unless you are exceptionally wise, or fortunate enough to have had the support and guidance you needed from friends or family. It is often the case that whilst they are willing to help we feel that we cannot discuss these issues and then when we wish to move on, have them hanging in the air between us and the people in our lives. Sometimes it is easier to discuss such things with someone who is completely neutral and who offers total confidentiality.
When you are making such a transition in life, and still carrying the effects of those negative experiences with you in your energy system, your thoughts, decisions and actions can be adversely influenced without you even being aware of what is happening. You may find yourself hanging on to ‘old energy' in the form of fears, anger, frustration, resentment, inability to trust (or love) that you have accumulated along the way as a method of protecting yourself.
Unfortunately these techniques and emotions are probably no longer relevant or appropriate and as you apply them to your new situation, they can become a burden and an obstacle in the way of the ‘new beginning' you feel so enthusiastic and optimistic about. This can mean that at a time in life when you feel you should be at your most joyful and contented you discover that you are anxious fearful and confused.
When you are able to recognise that this is happening you have taken the first step to healing yourself and moving toward new and positive experiences. If you do not have access to support or guidance that is understanding of your anxieties and confusion, you can stumble along feeling that you are missing out on an opportunity or opportunities for your future happiness, and find yourself in a spiral of disappointment, frustration and low self esteem which is self perpertuating.
If you have any questions or comments on the issues discussed above, I would be pleased to hear from you and to help if at all possible.
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